Sunday, January 31, 2010

Where are we heading

Some days back,there was a news that in Banglore, when parents are out to work, the maid used to send the toddler on rent for the whole day. The buyers used to give sleeping medicines to kids and used them for begging....I was shocked to see this news...When the parents think that their child is in safe hands, innocent kids' life is made miserable by the money makers....what a pity.


Are we doing injustice to our kids? Are we becoming so much busy in the race of making money that we are forgetting our primary responsibilities??

But the life has become so materialistic that it is necessary for both parents to earn money so that they can give their child every happiness of the world. They would be very unhappy to know that the apple of their eye is being sold for just Rs 100 or 200.


Some people say that to overcome this problem, the woman should leave her work and sit at home for the kid. If it is her will and she wants to be with her kid sharing happy  moments with him or her, then its fine. But what if she is not willing to leave her job knowing the fact that she has the capabilities and she can prove to the world that she is not made just to live and die.A woman may have goals in life but all her goals are left behind her other priorities.Moreover her financial conditions may not allow her to leave the job.

Then what is the solution of the problem....

The need is that the home maids should be employed after knowing their full background and should not be blindly trusted. Also, the parents should give surprise visits to home to check if everything is fine at home.This may reduce these mishappenings to a large extent.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

A unique example of Motherhood

We all love our kids a lot and want to see them happy always. There are less number of people who think of adopting others kids. Mostly they adopt because either they do not have their own kids or they want to have a son. Otherwise very few people think of adopting in their very starting age, that means before their marriage too.



But there is one such lady who has done it. She is the famous bollywood actress and former miss universe Sushmita Sen. She has first adopted a girl from a long time. This girl she adopted is named " Rinnie" and is now 10 years old. Adding this, She has now adopted one more girl who is just 3 months old.


I was thinking how a girl, who is not married till yet, think of adopting 2 girls kids and not thinking of her own marriage. She is also a famous personality. This is a true example of motherhood.She takes great care of both kids and was very happy on adopting the second child. She had not thought once that this will affect her marriage??


From the time, i have starting admiring her a lot.I Wish her all the success in life and great future ahead, happy married life.... So it would be right to say her "Supermom"...She has shown the new look of modern and thinking woman. She showed that modern woman donot follow the paths set by others...



And I hope this act of hers gives encouragement to others too which will help few more orphans to get good environment for their better lives.....Rinnie and Alisa, the lucky girls...